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Big gestures are nice. Tiny ones keep you close.

52 small ways to show love, one a week, most under 5 minutes and $0. Plus a grown-up chapter on intimacy.

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Cover of 52 Tiny Ways To Say I Love You

Sound familiar?

Take 1 ✗

"Look at that bird!" … "Mm."

Take 2 ✓

"Ooh, where? I love it."

Take 1 ✗

We never have sex anymore.

Take 2 ✓

I miss being close to you. Can we plan a night just for us?

Take 1 ✗

"I had the weirdest day." … "Same."

Take 2 ✓

"Tell me everything."

What's inside

  • 52 tiny ways in words, time, help, touch & surprise
  • 52-heart tracker
  • The Love Menu
  • How to answer your partner's little bids
  • "Closer": a grown-up, non-explicit chapter on keeping the spark (research, what to say, do's & don'ts, 12 ideas)

15 printable pages

Peek inside

An inside page of 52 Tiny Ways To Say I Love You
Honey smiling softly

Why it works

Couples who stayed together turned toward each other's small bids for attention far more often.

Source: Gottman & DeClaire, The Relationship Cure, 2001

Is it for you?

Made for you if…

  • Life got busy and you feel like roommates
  • You want ideas that cost nothing
  • You'd like to talk about intimacy gently

Not for you if…

  • You want a date-night planner for big outings
  • You're looking for explicit content

Questions

How do I get it?

Right after checkout you get an email with an instant download link for the PDF.

Can I print it?

Yes. It's sized for US Letter paper, and it also reads well on your phone.

Is this therapy?

No. These are tips for everyday couple moments, not therapy.

Do I need both partners?

It works best together, but it's fine to start alone.

Is the intimacy chapter explicit?

No. It's about connection, talking and consent — for adults, non-explicit.

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