"So when are you two getting married?"
Get through the family holidays as a team. Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year.
Instant PDF download · print or read on your phone
Sound familiar?
Take 1 ✗
So when are you two getting married?
Take 2 ✓
When we're ready, you'll be the first to know! How's your garden?
Take 1 ✗
You've gained weight.
Take 2 ✓
I've been happy! Anyway, this pie is amazing.
Take 1 ✗
Partner: "Your mom was rude to me."
Take 2 ✓
That wasn't ok. I'll talk to her. Thanks for telling me.
What's inside
- Before-you-go plan: which family when, gift budget, exit time, secret code word
- 5 awkward lines with a Take 2
- Do's & don'ts at the family table
- Gift plan
- Host-as-a-team checklist
- Drive-home debrief
8 printable pages
Peek inside
Why it works
Plan together, leave on time, back each other up in public.
Is it for you?
Made for you if…
- You're visiting one (or both) families this season
- Awkward questions are coming
- You want to arrive and leave as a team
Not for you if…
- Family visits feel unsafe for you
- You want a full family-therapy guide
Questions
How do I get it?
Right after checkout you get an email with an instant download link for the PDF.
Can I print it?
Yes. It's sized for US Letter paper, and it also reads well on your phone.
Is this therapy?
No. These are tips for everyday couple moments, not therapy.
Do I need both partners?
It works best together, but it's fine to start alone.
Is it only for Thanksgiving?
No, any family visit.